Comments on: True Confessions of a Boring Blogger

By: Virginia Nussey

Virginia Nussey — Mon, 01 Feb 2010 16:11:56 +0000

Tamaras, I think motivation is a different problem entirely. I was motivated to write quality stuff on the blog — the issue I outlined in this post was not knowing how.

When I’ve hit a motivational low point, I use a few different approaches. One thing I do I might do is take a break, step away from the keyboard, and give my brain a rest. That way when I return I feel refreshed and new ideas have come to me while my mind was open and relaxed.

If I can’t take a break, another approach I’ve found productive is just writing through the problem. By continuing to write when not motivated, I find I’ll discover something about myself or why I’m not motivated and I’ll have proved to myself that I’m a strong writer for not throwing my hands up in defeat.

By: tamaras

tamaras — Mon, 01 Feb 2010 07:51:35 +0000

So, how do you motivate yourself if you’re not feeling motivated? I think the feelings are key to understanding the root challenge.

By: Virginia Nussey

Virginia Nussey — Thu, 26 Feb 2009 16:05:28 +0000

Thank you, Kim. Getting to this point has been a journey! All the supportive thoughts and words have helped me see it’s worth it. I think I still have a ways to go, but I do enjoy a good adventure.

By: Kim Krause Berg

Kim Krause Berg — Thu, 26 Feb 2009 00:42:04 +0000

I wondered at how long it would take for you to find your own voice. There couldn’t be a way to replace The Lisa or her and Susan’s hysterical banter, but you and Susan or you alone, have gifts to share. Lisa started out slowly…warmed up, found her voice and ran with it. So will you! Actually, I think you just did

By: OSEO

OSEO — Fri, 20 Feb 2009 17:58:57 +0000

Virginia,

I am a pretty much new reader to say the least, I have never been a reader of blogs, but I do like to read yours. That was a great post and shows that you really do care in what you do and how you go about doing it. You will only learn more as you move along gaining more knowledge and expertise. Keep up the great writing Virginia.

By: Virginia Nussey

Virginia Nussey — Fri, 20 Feb 2009 17:21:44 +0000

@Shane, I can fill that request! So here’s me and Lisa on Squishable Day: http://www.bruceclay.com/blog/archives/2008/08/friday_recap_90.html . And here’s Lisa, Susan and I modeling Audette Media’s righteous shirts: http://www.bruceclay.com/blog/archives/2008/08/friday_recap_91.html (SEO Geek and proud, baby!). Here’s the time I met 86′d top chef Fabio: http://www.bruceclay.com/blog/archives/2009/01/search_industry.html . I should just whip out the projector and start my vacation slide show…
@netmeg, you’re a riot on Twitter. (Follow @netmeg everyone!) Thanks for reading, Meg
@Steve, what a perfect example. It’s amazing what we can find and learn through our communities.
@Adam, why thank you. And this — http://www.audettemedia.com/blog/seo-geek-card-holder — awesome!!!

By: Virginia Nussey

Virginia Nussey — Fri, 20 Feb 2009 16:55:33 +0000

@Kat, thank you. I had a feeling I wasn't the only one working through this issue. I definitely want to hear from you as you figure things out. I've committed to doing the same. [Adds GottaQuirk to feeds] Awesome indeed!

@Jayme, just 11 more steps to go... Or is it 11 million? Also, I never liked shadows much -- just trying to find that sunny patch. Thanks to friends like you I think I've finally seen the light!

@Riz, yay! Thank you so much for the compliment! I'm going to try to do you proud and keep giving you a reason to come back. P.S. Checking out your blog and you talk about McDo! My momma's from Manila! I love this small world of ours!

@Pat, SO good.

@Lisa, I'll just admit I'd be lost without you. Watching you navigate the space has given me something to aspire to. I think some people think I want to copy you, but that's not it. Just be as sharp, as committed and as good of a friend. I seriously don't know how you do it ALL. Do you even sleep anymore?

By: Virginia Nussey

Virginia Nussey — Fri, 20 Feb 2009 16:27:19 +0000

Wow, just wow. Thank you for all your frank comments and amazing support.
@Burgo, I will do my best. Also, your blog is awesome. Thanks for helping people find treasures off the beaten path. We aren’t so different after all.
@ J Matlock, I’m definitely going to try to share useful info consistently. This confessional has been nice because I feel like some people who no longer found the blog valuable might be giving me another chance.
@Scott, I totally agree – it’s such a tough balancing act. I can understand why companies are hesitant to enter the social media space. Success here requires a serious commitment of time and devotion.
@Kate, coming from someone who lives it, I’m flattered! I need to just follow you around for a day. The presence you keep in the industry makes me dizzy!

By: Adam Audette

Adam Audette — Fri, 20 Feb 2009 16:25:09 +0000

Clear and refreshing and true Virginia!

By: Steve Livingston

Steve Livingston — Fri, 20 Feb 2009 16:17:09 +0000

Virginia, that was a terrific post. You most certainly do “get it”, and here are the quote’s to prove it:

Too many times he’s seen people growing their network at the expense of building quality relationships.

It’s about you and me and the electricity we feel when we talk to each other — when we really share.

Social media is about quality conversation. Frank, real, authentic. That is what makes an interesting read. That’s what makes people really connect. I’ll be honest, I’ve never actually read this blog before (somewhat new to the online marketing community), but your post was very engaging. You can be sure that I’ll be making frequent stops. I’ll be looking forward to reading more!